Monday, September 10, 2012

Home...

So much stuff has happened that I will be making this into a diary type of entry... lol

seeing my sister again after 9 months!


8/21/12:

Only after a day of me being back from juarez my little sister came over to visit! I showed her around Rosarito and she had a blast. She thought she was in paradise (she LOVES the beach). We also stopped to get some groceries and look around the little stores that they have there. I ended up buying her a really pretty summer dress and a big poster of Marilyn Monroe because she loves her. We had a nice day and night talking about our shared memories about our childhood. She is going to be eighteen now and I shared with her a lot of my memories of our father and why I wasn't his biggest fan. It was really nice spending time with her.

Now that is a burrito!

My sister Mariel enjoying the view of my apartment.




8/22/12:

I woke up to the news that my Visa was in transit! it was on it's way to Tepic, Nayarit! I started freaking out and tried to get a hold of DHL for them to re-direct it again but no luck... It's "sensitive information" and they can't re-direct it without the consulate giving the "Go". I called Juarez and they told me to call the DHL, I called DHL and they told me to call Juarez... In the end after talking to my husband we just said fuck it and bought two plane tickets for me and Mariel (sister). The next morning we where on our way to Guadalajara.

8/23/12"

Mariel and I woke up early and got ready to take the plane to Guadalajara. The "fun" started as soon as we walked into the airport. I had forgotten that Mariel needed a tourist visa and the line was HUGE. So we where going to check in our luggage then wait in line when the lady told me that my bank did not authorized the purchase and my flight had been canceled. I ended up using two ATM's in order to get enough money to buy two more tickets for the next flight. We got mariel her tourist visa and we where on our way. Now we didn't have tickets to come back so we would have to buy tickets when we got to Guadalajara. Then we had the bus tickets to worry about from Guadalajara to Tepic and from Tepic to Santiago.

on our way to Guadalajara

She has no idea what's coming to her.

Damn ATMs!


When we finally arrived in Guadalajara we asked how much a taxi would cost to take us to the bus station (270 pesos!) ugh.. well I had to pull out more money but I was already maxed out for the day! I ended up exchanging $100 USD to Pesos then using all the ATMS that I could in order to pull more money out. We got the tickets then we where on our way to Tepic. It was raining like crazy! I have been on a lot of buses in mexico but I had never been on a bus during a thunderstorm. Once we got to Tepic we called my mom to tell her that we where fine. Turns out my husband noticed me taking money from different ATMs and told my mom and she started freaking out because she thought we had been kidnapped and the kidnappers made us pull out a lot of money. After calming her down and telling her that we where fine we took the bus to Santiago. Once we go there my aunt and uncle where there to meet us!

As soon as we got off the bus I had horrible flashbacks of the weather in nayarit. It was raining warm water and it was humid and hot. I looked at Mariel and laughed because she was in for a hell of a surprise.

8/24/12

After a horrible night of thunder storms and bug bites, -oh and mariel waking up screaming in the middle of the night because she had a bug on her face- we waited around for my uncle to get home so he could take me to Tepic, it was still raining and I did not want to take the bus again! Finally he got home and we went to Tepic to pick up my visa!

Visa in hand!



it would not stop raining!


After we got back to my aunts I showed Mariel around town and a guy selling Churros. Mariel by the way was already ready to go due to the crazy amount of mosquito bites we both had (and still have scars). I told her that it would be fine, My aunt had told us that the next day they where taking us to a river!





8/25/12:

There is a river by San Blas that is really nice to go swimming in. There is a hot spring and the water is so warm you feel like you are in a Jacuzzi. I thought I was going to get a chance to Tan but... Once we got there it started pouring rain! I love the rain and was more happy in the rain than in the river. My aunt told us that the next day we would go visit my moms oldest sister so Mariel could meet her.



I love the rain...



8/26/12:

After we woke up Mariel counted the bites on my back (32)... it hurt.. a lot. Later in the day we went to visit my moms oldest sister and she was really happy to see us and meet my sister for the first time. Her daughters (my cousins) made us food and we had a nice time talking to them. -I did not have any internet this whole time by the way.




8/27/12

Our last day in Nayarit was nice, I took Mariel to Santiago so she could look around where I was born because the next day we where going to have to travel back to TJ. She loved meeting the family but the weather and humidity where horrible. Not to mention we where covered in bites.


8/28/12:

We said our goodbye's to the family and promised to return soon. I think Mariel had her fingers crossed when she said that though. We once again traveled all the way to Guadalajara taking two buses in the process. Then finally home! we got there at maybe 2:30am and the next day I was going to wake up early to get my Visa stamped because Chris was on his way to bring me back home!


8/29/12

I got woken up early by my awesome neighbor Lara, she works in san diego and i asked her if she could take me to the border to get my stamp. Once we got there I was maybe 15 minutes in there.. at first they told me that it would take 3 hours because there was a lot of people there, minutes later my named was called and the guard just handed me my passport and had me put my fingerprints on a piece of paper and said that I was done! I was like "really? that's it?" He handed me my welcome letter and send me off!

 


8/30/12

Chris, Mariel and I went out to Puerto Nuevo to celebrate we went to a nice restaurant and then went home and started packing!






8/31/12

Time to go home! A lot of people have asked me what it felt like crossing... My answer is this: I was in too much of a shock to react. It took me a while and it's still taking me a while to adjust to being back in the U.S. I am so happy to be back home with my family that I have no words to describe this feeling. The last 10 months have been a very humbling experience. I don't look at things the same way anymore. I appreciate everything around me. My journey is far from over, I still need to get my SS# and my Green Card. I am about to start a new chapter in my life and I couldn't be more grateful. Stick around!


Adios Mexico!



Hello Home...


-Roby

Things I've learned
....with hard work, you can make miracles happen.

Monday, August 20, 2012

Juarez, Atom & Home


A lot has happened in the last couple days so... I'll start with last Wednesday.

Wednesday: I woke up early to go pick up my Instruction Letter at the DHL in Tijuana. Afterwards I went to the Airport and waited for my flight to Juarez. While waiting at the airport I had a couple of hours to kill so I went to the starbucks to use their internet. Turns out that they where having a seminar! on "Kenya" coffee.


After a while I got really bored and started wondering around the airport looking at the little stores that they have. Eventually it was time to take off!


As soon as I landed and got out of the plane I felt like I was bring punched in the face by sunshine. It was really hot and the sun burned! I have never experienced that type of heat before. I went straight to the hotel (LaQuinta) turned on the AC and did not leave until the next day.

Thursday: I got up early to go do my medical exam. I got one shot, an X-ray to check for TB, got my blood taken out, stood naked in front of the doctor again... After paying I went to the mall and had lunch with a really nice lady and her two kids. I had to wait until 2pm to go pick up my medical exam then go to the DHL and send it in. I got to know this lady (bertha) and her daughter (gaby), very nice people. Gaby is into gymnastics and I thought that was cool, she even showed me how to do a cart wheel! We all looked around the mall for a while before heading back to the clinic.


....this process is so expensive!

Doctor gave me a lollipop after my shot! yay!

looking around the mall i found these dolls

....not sure why but this does not seem right...

This guy was making bracelets, pretty neat!

Got one for my mom, sisters and me ^_^


I turned in my stuff at the DHL and headed back to the hotel. The next morning I woke up nice and early to catch a plane back to Tijuana.


Friday: So finally I get home and my neighbor informs me that my puppy had been throwing up and moping around. I noticed him upset before I left but I thought it was because he knew I was leaving. When I got back he didn't go back to his old happy self. Later that night he had diarrhea and I noticed blood on it. The next morning (saturday) we took him to a vet where they admitted him and kept him over night. The next morning (sunday) I called the vet to see how Atom was doing and he informed me that Atom didn't make it... I wasn't expecting that. Then the vet told me that it was "parvo" I looked at his vaccines and told the doctor that he had his shot. That's when I found out that here in mexico sometimes they waterdown medicine to sell more of it and that Atom probably didn't get good quality vaccinations. We think that he probably contracted it about 2-3 weeks ago when he got neutered, they don't really sterilize equipment here and animals aren't treated really well... I loved my little buddy and it really hurts me. I will miss him a lot. I am glad I met him and kept him happy... He kept me company here in mexico and I hope he was happy.






....Goodbye little buddy. I wish I could have taken you home with me. I should be getting my Visa in about a week or two. Then I get to go home.. it's really bittersweet now.


-Roby

What I have learned:
... Never take your pets for granted.

Tuesday, July 31, 2012

I can almost see the end of the tunnel



It has been 276 days since I left my home. I am proud to announce that my 10 year ban has been lifted. My waiver was approved on July 19th. There are no words to describe how happy and relieved I am. I don't care that I have to go to Juarez again, I don't care that I am going to be stuck in customs for hours. All I know is that home is close and I am going to be allowed to go back.

Happy Roby!

I have learned a lot and traveled to a lot of places. This has really been a hell of an experience. Here are some things that I have experienced:

-Mexico is not as dangerous as the US makes it out to be.
-Don't go to a black market and ask for a Monkey because you will get one.
-The best tacos are in Mexico City
-Mexico has buses that to everywhere! good place to travel.
-Michoacan has nice weather
-There are a lot of options for healthcare in Mexico.
-The hottest and most humid place in Mexico is in Nayarit
-Fishing is awesome
-Nuevo vallarta is way better than Puerto vallarta
-Guadalajara is a horrible place to drive, as well as TJ and Ciudad Juarez
-You need to boil water when you buy a new ceramic pot before cooking in it
-Aguascalientes is a nice place
-it's okay to freak out, you can't act strong all the time, it will drive you crazy.
-When fishing for "Rock dwelling" fish, bring lots of hooks
-Its okay to take antidepressants, sometimes we all need a little help
-Once you stop caring about what people think you will truly be at peace


There is a lot more but.. thats just a few things. For all of you going through this all I can say is: hang in there! this is a hard fucking process, if you need to cry, cry! if you need to scream do it! it will keep you sane once the bad feelings pass, if not, then at least you will be numb. Either way... after you can't cry or scream anymore you are still standing there having to deal with this. So, hang in there and allow yourself to be human. Life isn't fair sometimes and all we can do is let it go by and look for ways to make things a little better.All you 9c's have my love and support.

-Roby

What I have learned:
If I can go through this process without a lawyer, I can accomplish anything.